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Aristos, Runs and other shenanigans

It’s 10pm and my Uber is waiting outside to take me to The George to meet Emma. I’m confused between the silky black dress and the two piece I just got from Wanger Ayu. There is a receipt on my bed detailing how much I have spent just to “look good for Zaddy” but of course, by tomorrow morning I’d

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Can you really make me happy: Is happiness transferable?

These days, self-happiness is way too over exaggerated, that it’s becoming to sound a lot more like selfishness.   Disregard any abnormal interpretation, I’m explaining from the most humane side of me.    Writing this was solely triggered after I had experienced incessant promises and pledges of “I can make you happy”, “let me make you happy”. Which made me “really”

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Feeding the right personality

Just as there are two sides of the coin, so do we have different sides to us. As an individual, we have varying personalities- in the sense that we constantly change, which is solely based on events that have happened to us and our surroundings. A classic illustration would be how you say, “You don’t want to see the other

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The Act of Unlearning

Learning is a constant process. To be human and survive, the will to learn must be constant. Now learning requires unlearning, so you can relearn. Unlearning simply means mentally correcting knowledge; the best illustration would be how we have application upgrades, or better still how bills and rules are amended. Those are actual acts of unlearning, because it tweaks with

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Creating Self-Value

Self-value can only be strengthened through one’s self perception. You must also know that self-perception is very vital because, that is the way people pick off energies from you. The simplest illustration would be yourself; one too many times, you find yourself drifting or second guessing a person during a conversation. It isn’t that the words coming from that person

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Faith et Doubt

It is popularly said that, “Fear attracts the devil and Faith attracts God.” Doubt is a type of fear, not like I’m trying to classify what fear is, but this is true. Talking about faith and doubt, is like talking about the two sides of a coin. You either have faith or you have doubt. By saying that doubt is

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