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The Quintessential Millennial

Independence and self-reliance are the order of the day. From emotions to finances and even in religion, all of this highly doused in positivity. You have got to believe that you are unique in every way and believe in taking responsibility of your life. The millennial chases’ consistency, seeking happiness; self-fulfillment through personal efforts. Love and light addicts. Positivity, Yoga,

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Searching for My Old Friend

Is happiness truly the ultimate? Here I am, days and months after. Living vicariously through lessons from books, therapy and mantras but I’m wondering what’s so unsettling about awareness. One would wonder how one sees the beauty in sadness. Pitch black darkness. If I was to express lyrically, it would be a case of wanting “silent whispers over calm voices”.

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Moral Relativism

Hey! So, I stumbled on this theory through a book “The State of Affairs” which basically focuses on rethinking the term “infidelity“. I’m always almost in a ” right timing” sort of bond with books in read, so you can imagine my mental and physical moans of satisfaction while reading this. Generally, the theory of Moral Relativism argues that nobody

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What Happened 10 Years Ago?

Quarantimes! It’s one hour past midnight and I have the word “ululate” in my head. I must blame it on my ex’s poem I read. I’m happy people still genuinely feel love for others. About what happened 10 years from now is on the subject of love. Personally, I’ve been told I love too much. I give too much time.

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Toxic Positivism

I need a break from love, light, and bloom. Tired of faux motivation and inspirational quotes flying around everywhere. In Cardi’s voice, “Corona Virus! Shit is getting real” I can across a post from the Tanglaw Mental Health Agency that expressly stated what toxic positivism is and I state; ” The excessive and ineffective over generalization of a happy and

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Rising Above Rona

I mean…shit! This post has been way overdue. While almost everyone I know is getting pumped up with some energy I really want to find out how where and how they are getting and doing it, I can’t help screaming that I am mentally tired. Physically, I’m on social media all day, on my phone all day playing games or

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World Stop

When do we carry on? When does it all end? These are interesting times, when the real lesson of equality is awakening in every one of us. How our fate is to die, how fickle life can get. “Cleanliness is next to holiness” Can 2020 get worse than it is already? I ask this as I look forward to the

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Life’s Purpose: Service

I believe our imaginations are only as wide and opened as our minds are. There is also the message of love which over time has revealed its self as the global religion. Love one another as we love ourselves. Treat everyone with empathy. Put in one word – service. When I go online and find myself lost in a sea

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This Time Called Time

I stressed the “e” out of his name, which in its entirety means love. This was a person I thought I was hopelessly in love with a couple of months. Time reveals. Once upon a time, I felt a heavy burden in my heart, I couldn’t breathe, I felt numb to the point I wanted to just go. Writing this

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Is The Drunken Writer Really A Drunk

This is a question I ask myself sometimes because if I am not drinking wine, I am either drinking African bitters. People say addiction is a means to escape, for me, I call it a mental distortion. In the equation is the presence of edibles but I worry about how many calories I’ll have to consume just to feel like

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